House Approves Same-sex Marriage
The proposal to guarantee marriage rights to all Rhode Islanders now moves onto the state Senate. Cranston's Rep. Arthur Handy introduced the bill.
The Rhode Island House of Representatives voted 51 to 19 today to allow same-sex couples to marry in Rhode Island, the Legislature announced in a release.
The bill’s primary sponsor, Rep. Arthur Handy of Cranston, who has introduced the bill for each of the last 11 years, said the measure is about justice and equity for same-sex couples, but is also emotional and personal for so many who have worked for years for marriage equality.
“Obviously, this issue is about fairness and allowing all Rhode Islanders to have equal access to the rights and responsibilities that come with marriage, but marriage is about so much more than legal protections," Handy said in a release. "My wife and I have been married since 1997, and as we’ve worked together to raise our son, the value of having a committed, strong family has become more apparent to us over time. All Rhode Islanders deserve to enjoy that security and support, and deserve to have their family recognized as equal to others.
"It feels good to see how far we’ve come in Rhode Island toward valuing all families, and I know we are close to the day when marriage equality becomes law here,” the Cranston representative added.
Forty-two of the 75 House members sponsored the bill, and the House Judiciary Committee approved it unanimously. The Seante is the final hurdle as Gov. Lincoln Chafee has pledged to sign it if the Senate approves it as well, the Statehouse release states.
The bill removes gender-specific language from the section of the general laws that governs eligibility for marriage. It inserts language that allows any person to marry any other eligible person, regardless of gender, effective immediately upon adoption of the bill.
It contains a provision that allows couples who entered into civil unions in Rhode Island to convert those unions to marriages, and automatically converts all remaining civil unions that have not been dissolved by Jan. 1, 2014, into marriages on that date.
The bill reiterates the right of religious institutions to set their own guidelines for marriage eligibility within their faith.
Rhode Island is the only New England state that does not allow same-sex marriage. Currently nine states and Washington, D.C., allow same-sex couples to marry.
In September, a WPRI poll of 501 likely voters in Rhode Island found that 56 percent of Rhode Islanders support same-gender marriage, and only 36 percent oppose it.
Tom at Oak Lawn
7:12 pm on Thursday, January 24, 2013
That's a darn shame that the people we elect to represent us take it upon themselves to re-define marriage, in direct opposition to how God defined it. It make me wonder how God will respond?
Robert E
2:48 am on Friday, January 25, 2013
It's time for people to stop using the bible as an excuse for bigotry. Bigotry and Hatred wrapped in Religion are still Bigotry and Hatred. Religion enables the bigoted and hateful to believe that their bigotry and hatred is virtue. Don’t make excuses for homophobia that you wouldn’t make for racism. Just imagine a Christian saying:
I have a deep conviction in the authority of the Bible. And the Bible clearly approves of slavery, and in fact commands it in some cases (Exodus 22:3; Deuteronomy 20:10-11, 14). Furthermore, I belive, based on Genesis 9:25-27, that the descendants of Ham are to be the slaves of the descendants of Shem and Japheth, and after deep reflection I’ve concluded that Africans are the modern-day descendants of Ham. So please don’t call my support for enslaving Africans bigotry. It’s not. It is a working out of deep convictions.
Bigots will be just as free to hate same sex marriage when it’s legal as they did when it was not. The difference is that nobody will be legally obligated to give a crap what they think.
Dan Johnson
11:42 am on Monday, February 11, 2013
The scriptures can and have been used to justify genocide, slavery, apartheid, segregation, crusades, inquisitions, and many other atrocities. They are currently being used to dehumanize and demonize gay people, even though there is no rational, reasonable, or scientific reason to treat gay people differently than you would want to be treated. The only excuse for prejudice and discrimination remains in a few questionable religious texts, which have been misinterpreted and mistranslated over time, and which are contradicted by other verses including the most important one according to Jesus, namely that you love God and love others the same. Accepting alternate interpretations of those few verses that seem to condemn same sex love does not require abandoning your religious beliefs, only expanding them to include the idea that God created all things, including gay people, and He wants you to love them as you love Him, not judge and harm them.
Glen Beattie
8:06 pm on Thursday, January 24, 2013
How will God respond? I think God will give you a pass on your last statement..Seems to me God has always been for equality for all.......If you haven't learned that about his teachings, you haven't learned anything.
Tom at Oak Lawn
10:41 am on Friday, January 25, 2013
Glen, if there's one thing that I have learned about the truths of God, is that I don't understand them all. But understand this -- God Word frees us us from sin -- it doesn't free us to sin. If you think that God is hateful for calling sodomy a sin, then you're argument is with Him, not me. Robert, it's easy to quote the bible out-of-context, but God's word is plain about homosexuality. Just Read it. Lev. 18.22 22 "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination. 23 And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is perversion." I don't see any ambiguity here, guys.
Robert E
1:55 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
Tom do you eat shellfish because if you do you might as well sleep with another man because you have commited as greavis a sin. The same chapter that condems homosexuality as an abomination says the same thing about shellfis. Do you ask your state reps to outlaw shellfish? Admit it it has nothing to do wit God your just a homophobe and use God as an excuse. At least be a man and admit it amd stop hiding behind god. By the way you might want to try reading the new testament Christ whould not be happy with your statments.
Dan Johnson
11:52 am on Monday, February 11, 2013
Sodomy in biblical times was about refusing to follow the Golden Rule. It had nothing to do with same sex relationships based on mutual love and respect.
"The primarily sexual meaning of the word sodomia for Christians did not evolve before the 6th century AD. Roman Emperor Justinian I, in his novels no. 77 (dating 538) and no. 141 (dating 559) amended to his Corpus iuris civilis, and declared that Sodom's sin had been specifically same-sex activities and desire for them. He also linked "famines, earthquakes, and pestilences" upon cities as being due to "such crimes", during a time of recent earthquakes and other disasters." (wiki)
"There are about twenty references to the story of Sodom in the Bible, and none of them says homosexuality was the sin of Sodom. One of the most extensive references to Sodom is found in Ezekiel, which says, “This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy. They were haughty and did abominable things before me; therefore I removed them when I saw it.” (Ezekiel 16:49-50) It is clear from this passage (and others like it ) that the abomination of Sodom, according to the Old Testament prophets, was that they behaved with callous indifference toward the weak and vulnerable — the poor, orphans, widows, and strangers in their midst." (wouldjesusdiscriminate.org/biblical_evidence/sodom_and_gomorrah.)
Tom at Oak Lawn
10:48 am on Friday, January 25, 2013
And God says HOW he will respond ..."Do not make yourselves unclean by any of these things, lfor by all these the nations I am driving out before you have become unclean, 25 and the mland became unclean, so that I punished its iniquity, and the land nvomited out its inhabitants. 26 But oyou shall keep my statutes and my rules and do none of these abominations, either the pnative or the stranger who sojourns among you 27 (for the people of the land, who were before you, did all of these abominations, so that the land became unclean), 28 lest the land vomit you out when you make it unclean, as it vomited out the nation that was before you. 29 For everyone who does any of these abominations, the persons who do them shall be cut off from among their people. 30 qSo keep my charge never to practice rany of these abominable customs that were practiced before you, and never to make yourselves unclean by them: I am the Lord your God.”
Glen Beattie
11:44 am on Friday, January 25, 2013
Tom, you're quoting Leviticus, not God .......When you quote me something in the Bible that God said about marriage equality or homosexuality, then you'll have my undivided attention......
Robert E
1:58 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
What any of us do is between us and God, not between us and those who think they speak for God from their small minds. How about let’s wait and let God decide who gets in and who doesn’t. How about we give him a little credit and believe he is compassionate and does not make such decisions based on the prejudices of man.
Tom at Oak Lawn
3:13 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
Glen -- Lev.18.1 starts out " And the Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 2 “Speak to the people of Israel and say to them, I am the Lord your God......." But I don't want your undivided attention, God does. Robert -- I was hoping to keep our discussion above name-calling. But for myself, I am a married man who loves all people made in the image of God. If I had trouble with any sin (lying for example), and you loved me, and had compassion for me, you would say to me, "Tom you're lying will hurt you, and the people who love you, so please stop lying." If you didn't really care for me, you might just ignore me, or say to me that "everyone does it, so it's ok for you, too." True compassion for people with any sin compels me to lead them to the Cross of Christ, so that they -- like me -- can turn from sin, acknowledge God, and begin anew, a life of joy. This new life can only be found in Jesus Christ. There is no other. No other path. No way around. No alternative. I know myself, as I have turned, from my own sin -- to Christ. I hope someday, both of you guys will come to Christ. It's an amazing journey!
Robert E
3:38 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
The problem I have with the Christians is not the religion but the fact that they want everyone to be Christian. They for the most part don't seem to understand that not everybody is a Christian. I for once would like to have a discussion with them on a subject like this with out having to bring up the bible. They can't seem to figure out that saying God said so in the Bible does not convince me. You don't see other Religions coming here and saying to the Christians it has to be this way because Buda says so. Lord Shiva said it should be this way but they always have to tell you what Christ wants. The same chapter of the Bible that calls a man laying with a man an abomination also says eating shellfish in an abomination but you never see the Christians protesting in front of Red Lobster or partitioning the state house to pass a law banning calm chowder because it offends God. The thing I have found is many Christians have very little knowledge of their own bible they only know what their priest/minister tells them but few read the whole thing for themselves. I just get tired of being told I need to follow Jesus all the time.
Robert E
3:39 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
The bible is a work of MAN - not of any god or supreme being - it was written by men - corrupted by men and altered for their own purposes ( see here :http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea ) - the councils remit being "to create statements of belief and canons of doctrinal orthodoxy— the intent being to define unity of beliefs for the whole of Christendom."
Now as to how the writings where inspired or their ORIGIONAL intent - has been lost in the mists of time - but what is for sure - religion has been used and abused for mans own purpose - ever since the year dot - not just the christian religion either - all religions !! - and the book called the bible ,that we all know today , has little relevance to any gods word - just mans - seeking to control others AND give excuse and or justification for some of the most barbaric acts in mans history and the persecution of non believers in this creation of man
Tom at Oak Lawn
3:50 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
Robt -- when you know where to find a good cuppa Joe, don't ya just feel compelled to tell everyone? It's kinda like that. The fact that you're being told, "all the time" to follow Jesus...might be your first clue. But seriously, taking small steps, like finding a good church. Grace Bible Church (on Legion Way) in Cranston is excellent. Stop in. Lots of compassionate people.
Tom at Oak Lawn
3:57 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
God loves you Robert -- right where you are -- just as you are. If He loves a sinner like me, imagine the love you'll feel when you come to know Him. :)
Stop in, soon.
Tom at Oak Lawn
4:05 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
Grace Bible Chapel
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10:45-11:00 - Coffee/Tea Fellowship, 11:00-11:50 - Bible Study & Sunday School
Robert E
4:47 pm on Friday, January 25, 2013
If murdering babies, forcing people to marry their rapists, sending diseases and famines on children, ordering and/or establishing slavery, killing 70,000 people because their king takes a census, commaning the burning of prostitutes to death, ordering the stoning people for picking up sticks, and torturing people for eternity are part of the defining characteristics of the idea of a loving god, then having both God and Satan would appear unnecessary .
It seems clear to me that even if such a God as the one portrayed in the Bible existed, He could not be trusted to be true to any promise or treat anyone justly. Satan is the unsung hero of the Bible. Courageously standing up against God's tyrrany.
Joe The Plumber
10:04 pm on Saturday, January 26, 2013
All of the acts you have cited were initiated by the free will of humans.
It was the Pharaoh's free will that enslaved the Israelites and resulted in the plague. That was initiated by the acts of man not God. God simply dealt out the punishment.
It was David's own free will decision to listen to the temptations of Satan rather than obey God. So David caused the pestilence that killed 70,000.
There really are consequences to people's use of their free will. This is such a simple truth that many in today's society just do not get. Do something wrong and you will pay. Religions call it different things. Karma, kismit, judgement. Call it what you want. It is simply the result of humans using their free will.
Not by God.
God did give us a gift of free will which has been used in the manner you describe.
Free will of humans has also been used for incredible acts of charity and kindness.
As for Heaven and Hell... well, God also leaves that up to humans, who can use their free will to determine for themselves where they end up for eternity.
Robert E
12:54 am on Sunday, January 27, 2013
Joe these are not acts commited by man these are acts commited by god as written in the bible are you saying the bible is not the word of god.
Maltida Arnold
6:22 pm on Saturday, January 26, 2013
Love your post, could not have said it any better myself.
Joe Rhodes
9:44 am on Saturday, February 2, 2013
As I've spent years teaching equality through our states E.E.O.A.C. , it has even more-so caused me to speak up & out to anyone and anywhere that I see it occurring.....racial and sexual discrimination. Lets start setting the record straight; if one of your loved ones needed blood to live and not die, and it just so happens that it would come from an African America, Asian, Caucasian etc...., or if it came from a lesbian, homosexual etc...would it matter? I bet you don't need to think to long....you'll take it!
Flamboyancy in excess of any race or sexuality can become irritating at it's best. We do and should tolerate our differences of diversity yet we all should be vigilant to reflect upon our own indiscretions that play upon others. There is not one person without fault, and there is not on person of perfection.
Dan Johnson
3:49 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013
Dr. King said: "Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed." He also acknowledged that real change takes time; yet he also warned against the "tranquilizing drug of gradualism" and instructed the oppressed to demand equality now - not on the convenient time schedule of those doing the oppressing. So we must speak out and work for equal rights, not sit quietly and hope straight people eventually will decide to give them to us as some sort of reward for waiting patiently.
Many have changed their understanding of gay people, but each day that passes is still a long time to wait for equal treatment under the law as required by the 5th and 14th amendments. It is also too long to wait for the young people who kill themselves every year because they can't assimilate their sexual orientation with the dehumanizing prejudice they were taught by the law from early childhood.
All mainstream medical and social science organizations in the US agree, being gay is a natural expression of human bonding for a minority of the population. It has always been that way, and there is no longer any reasonable or scientifically supportable excuse for prejudice and discrimination. We also know for sure, that prejudice and discrimination lead to suffering and death. Now is the time to discard the unsupportable prejudice we have been taught from childhood, and treat everyone equally under the law.
Tom at Oak Lawn
7:21 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013
Look -- you guys are missing the point -- Gay couples don't want marriage for the simple reason that Marriage is a institution created by God for people who follow God. Which is why Rhode Island has adopted Civil Unions for gay people. No different rights or privileges than Marriage, but again, Marriage, as God created it, IS between one man & one woman. By definition, gay couple cannot be married. This is why so many people of God find this so offensive -- the gay community is trying to create a law in direct opposition to God's Word. So what's wrong with Civil Unions? I am guessing it's NOT really about equality under the law? Civil Unions achieve this already. So why does the gay community insist on twisting God's word?
And Dan -- what did Dr. King say about homosexuality? Absolutely Nothing. So don't twist this remarkable man's words to your purposes when you have NO idea what he thinks about homosexuality.
Dan Johnson
11:25 am on Monday, February 11, 2013
Coretta Scott King: "Gays and lesbians stood up for civil rights in Montgomery, Selma, in Albany, Georgia, and St. Augustine, Florida, and many other campaigns of the Civil Rights Movement. Many of these courageous men and women were fighting for my freedom at a time when they could find few voices for their own, and I salute their contributions."
"I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people and I should stick to the issue of racial justice... But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King, Jr., said, 'Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere' ... I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King, Jr.'s dream to make room at the table of brotherhood and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people."
Julian Bond said in 2005: “Many gays, many lesbians, worked side by side with me in the civil rights movement. Am I supposed to tell them now thanks for risking their lives and their limbs to help me win my rights but that they are excluded because of the circumstances of their birth? Not a chance.”
He also said; " I think Martin King would stand as his widow stood -- in favor of them."
The March On Washington was organized by one of Dr. Kings main advisors, Bayard Rustin, who was known by Dr. King to be a gay man.
It should be clear through is work side by side with gay people, he would today, support full legal equality for all persons, as required by the constitution.
Dan Johnson
1:15 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Civil Unions?
"If gay and lesbian people must submit to different treatment without an exceedingly persuasive justification, they are deprived of the benefits of the principal of equal protection upon which the rule of law is founded."
Iowa Supreme Court
"While retention of the limitation of marriage to opposite-sex couples is not needed to preserve the rights and benefits of opposite-sex couples, the exclusion of same sex couples from the designation of marriage works a real and appreciable harm upon same-sex couples and their children." (Ca Supreme Ct. in Re marriage p.117)
"The statutory provisions that continue to limit access to this designation exclusively to opposite sex couples likely will be viewed as an official statement that the family relationship of same sex couples are not of comparable stature or equal dignity to the family relationship of opposite-sex couples." (p.118 In Re Marriage)
In 2009, Julian Bond : "Black people, of all people, should not oppose equality. And that is what gay marriage represents. ... No people of good will should oppose marriage equality. And they should not think that civil unions are a substitute. At best, civil unions are separate but equal. And we all know separate is never equal."
Rev. Dr. William Barber II, North Carolina NAACP: "They're trying to give people, based on their sexuality, a kind of second- or third-class citizenship. We know what that looks like in the NAACP, and we're calling it what it is."
Dan Johnson
10:55 am on Monday, February 11, 2013
Many gay couples are Christians, and many have been getting married in their churches, even long before those marriages were legally recognized.
But when did we start requiring religious belief to get married? We don't. Non believers get married every day by clerks, judges, and Elvis impersonators in Vegas. There is no religious requirement for a wedding. It is allowed, not required.
There are 8 types of marriage in the bible. But we base our laws on the constitution, not the bible. You chosen interpretations about what the bible says or doesn't say, fail to provide any legitimate governmental interest sufficient for denial of equal treatment under the law as promised in the founding documents and required by the 5th and 14th amendments.
Dan Johnson
11:31 am on Monday, February 11, 2013
Rev. William Sinkford, former President, Unitarian Universalist Church: "The Unitarian Universalist Association has a long-standing and deeply held religious commitment to support full equality for gay people. We dedicate ourselves to work for justice, grounded in faith, which calls us to support everyone's full humanity, everyone's ability to love, and everyone's value in the world."
“There is a significant and growing consensus among biblical scholars about the few biblical texts that are often referenced as the basis for condemning same-gender loving people of God. Contemporary biblical scholarship argues strongly against this condemnation and finds a much more significant Gospel message that supports the inclusion of LGBT persons into the full life and mission of the church.” ( United Church of Christ.”)
Tom at Oak Lawn
2:43 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
So Dan, you didn't answer my premise. Why would a gay man, and his partner, want to get married, according to God's law, which is between a woman & a man (the only kind in the Bible)? Answer: They cannot. They aren't a man & a woman. Analogy: If you have a bowlful of apples on your table, do you invite your guests to have a pear? Of course not...there's no pears in the bowl. The word, Marriage, is for OS couples. And the word Union is for SS couples. Equal under the law, equal in rights, protections, liberties. Both equal in state law. Or do you STILL need to trample my religion? Desecrate my God? Violate the sacred character of Marriage by sacrilegious laws?
Dan Johnson
3:53 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
(I intended to post it here, my first answer is below.) more...
Marriage is a fundamental right of the individual. No religious belief is required. Being human is the only requirement for a fundamental right.
Fundamental rights may only be delayed or restricted when a compelling and legitimate governmental interest can be demonstrated. Your belief one of each gender is required, fails the test of equal law. Gay people are getting married, and there is no legitimate governmental interest served by denial of equal treatment as required by the constitution. Your religious belief, not shared by all, fails to qualify as a rational and legitimate reason for denial of equal treatment.
"In the court’s final analysis, the government’s only basis for supporting DOMA comes down to an apparent belief that the moral views of the majority may properly be enacted as the law of the land in regard to state-sanctioned same-sex marriage in disregard of the personal status and living conditions of a significant segment of our pluralistic society. Such a view is not consistent with the evidence or the law as embodied in the Fifth Amendment with respect to the thoughts expressed in this decision. The court has no doubt about its conclusion:...DOMA deprives them of the equal protection of the law to which they are entitled."
Robert E
8:27 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Through most of human history and in most cultures the most widely accepted tradition of marriage has been polygamy -- one man and multiple women. We're not just talking about exotic island cultures or lost tribes in the African jungle. Polygamy is the family form most often mentioned in the first five books of the Old Testament. For the first 16 centuries of its existence, the Catholic Church held that marriage was inherently tainted by what Pope Gregory the Great deemed the degrading "carnal pleasure" that took place under its auspices. The church decided that a man and woman were married if they had exchanged "words of consent," even if they had done so out by the haystack, without any witnesses or involvement by a priest. Not until 1215 did the Catholic Church make marriage a sacrament, and not until 1563 did it begin to enforce rules mandating that certain ceremonies had to be performed to make a marriage legitimate. Sixteenth-century Protestant reformers had a much more positive marriage a sacrament, and not until 1563 did it begin to enforce rules mandating that certain ceremonies had to be performed to make a marriage attitude toward the blessedness of marriage than Catholics.
Robert E
8:28 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013
But Protestant clerics were stricter than Catholics in enforcing the tradition that marriage should be governed by considerations of patriarchal authority and property rather than free choice based on love. In many Protestant regions, authorities forbade impoverished individuals from marrying at all. And Protestant officials often stepped in to dissolve marriages that had been made without parental consent, even if both parties were adult and children had already been born to their union. Most of the "traditions" we associate with marriage are in fact comparatively new. It was only two centuries ago that people began to marry for love rather than for mercenary or practical considerations. Only 130 years ago did men start to lose their legal right to physically beat or imprison their wives. And only in the past 40 years have we established the principle that within a marriage wives and husbands have equal rights in decision-making. Not until 1979 did the last American state finally repeal its "Head and Master" law, which had given husbands the final say over many aspects of family life.
Robert E
8:29 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Not until 1993 did marital rape become a crime in every state, overturning the millennia-old tradition that a wife was obligated to have sex with her husband whenever he demanded it. Trying to revert to antiquated and unfair traditions is not the answer. We need to figure out how to build on the opportunities and minimize the risks associated with the ongoing modernization of marriage. It helps no one to wage futile culture wars to return to a tradition that wasn't half as clear-cut or advantageous as many people believe.
Tom at Oak Lawn
3:09 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Like your Tim Hatch article reads: Acceptance can be separate and distinct. Not better or worse. Many gay people attend (Tim's) church and know (they) teach the Bible's stand on homosexual relations. Yet (he) loves having them there, and want them to continue finding God's power to resist sin just like the rest of us. Separate but EQUAL, Dan.
Dan -- I think you, and many others, want God to change His mind about the sin of homosexuality. He will not. He has said He will not. Nor will He change His mind about the sins I commit. The ONLY difference between you & I is that I acknowledge my own sinfulness, ask God to change me, as I feel powerless to change under my own steam. He has told me that He will change me: (Philippians 4:13) And I trust in Him. And Dan -- I believe you can do all things through Christ.
Dan Johnson
3:27 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Civil Unions, a so called "compromise" may seem reasonable to those not affected. But in this "compromise", only the legal rights of gay people are compromised. They forfeit equality, while the straight majority lose nothing, and would also lose no legal rights by granting full marriage equality.
The Supreme Court ruled on the matter of "separate but equal" in the 1954 case Brown v. Board of Education. The court recognized that "separate but equal" opportunities created a feeling of inferiority for the minorities being segregated, and that this feeling of segregation could cause permanent emotional injury.
Court quotes above expand on why separate can never be equal. Separate is different, and will always be seen as inferior.
Dr. Chris Beyrer, Johns Hopkins Center for Public Health and Human Rights, testified denying same sex couples the right to marry harms community health: ``We know for certain that lesbian and gay individuals suffer harm to their physical and psychological health, and to their relationships and quality of life, as result of the shame, isolation and stigma accrued from their social and legal disenfranchisement.
Dan Johnson
4:04 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Your belief being gay is prohibited is not shared by all religious scholars, leaders, or believers. Many understand the few verses you use to justify harming gay people through denial of equal rights, have been mistranslated and misinterpreted. But even if you must believe sexual orientation is a sin, remember we don't use the law to punish others you believe are sinners, unless we can show they are harming others needlessly. Sexual orientation is a fact of life. It does not harm anyone. Marriage also is not inherently harmful. Allowing same sex couples to participate fully under the laws currently in effect harms no on.
"What the Bible forbids is acts of lust, rape, idolatry, violation of religious purity obligations, or pederasty, but no condemnation of homosexuality in relationships of mutual respect and love. "On the other hand, the Bible pointedly celebrates instances of same-sex emotional intimacy, a fact often overlooked by fearful homophobic readers." James B. Nelson, Professor of Christian Ethics, United Theological Seminary
Dan Johnson
3:13 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Do you allow non-believers to get married?
Legal marriage does not depend on your belief, nor any belief. It is still marriage.
You are free to discriminate against gay people in your church, home, and private clubs. No one is desecrating you God or trampling your religion. You are still free to believe anything you choose.
You should not be able however, to impose your beliefs on all other believers and non believers.
Many other religious groups accept marriage equality and perform those ceremonies in their churches. Gay men and women are getting married in their churches. Imposition of your religious beliefs on them, prevents them from practicing their religion as they see fit.
Gay people of both sexes want to get married for all of the same wide range of reasons straight people do. Marriage provides a stabilizing effect on relationships in addition to the 1,138 federal rights and protections in addition to the state rules. Allowing gay people to participate equally under the laws currently in effect does not change your marriage in any legal way. If treating others as you would yourself under the law affects some change in your perception of your marriage, that is your own choice. There is no legal change.
Tom at Oak Lawn
4:35 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Do ya really believe Nelson's "no condemnation of homosexuality" in the Bible? Just a cursory reading of Leviticus is in order, if you don't believe me.
It is common in the debate over gay marriage for proponents to argue that consenting adults should be free to do as they please. Both social liberals and libertarians insist that, since there are no victims, government has no right to prohibit gay marriage. This laissez-faire approach to legislation, however, defies credibility as a governing principle. For starters, the vast majority of traffic laws—from speeding, stop signs, seat belt laws, driver’s license and insurance requirements, and drunk driving—prohibit behavior that doesn’t, in and of itself, harm other people. So too, with laws regarding truancy, public intoxication, curfews, etc.
But all political principles, including the “harm principle,” are a reflection of a moral decision. This libertarian philosophy is a product of one’s moral decision to value personal liberty to the exclusion of anything else.
In short, society has always had a legitimate interest in prohibiting self-evident violations of the “Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God”—an objective moral order out of which both vice crimes (inherently dehumanizing behavior) and natural rights spring. In contrast, the “harm principle” is simply a license for immorality operating under the guise of “liberty.”
Dan Johnson
4:56 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Yes, even Leviticus, which no one attempts to follow completely, is out of context and misinterpreted as well as mistranslated. It prohibited pagan ritual sex, and martial infidelity, not same sex relationships based on mutual love and respect.
You demonstrate no harm from treating gay people as you do yourself under the law.
While your list includes privileges, not fundamental civil rights, we know drunk driving, speeding, not stopping at stop signs, etc, do in fact cause harm.
The laws of nature show us being gay is a part of nature:
“Research over several decades has demonstrated that sexual orientation ranges along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex. Despite the persistence of stereotypes that portray lesbian, gay, and bisexual people as disturbed, several decades of research and clinical experience have led all mainstream medical and mental health organizations in this country to conclude that these orientations represent normal forms of human experience. Lesbian, gay, and bisexual relationships are normal forms of human bonding.” (APA)
While there are various explanations of natural law, one of the tenants that appears throughout the various versions, is the ethic of reciprocity and equality. That "no man require to reserve to himself any right, which he is not content should be reserved to every one of the rest".
Equal treatment under the law harms no one.
Tom at Oak Lawn
4:52 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Speaking for myself, I am a christian, and I have no irrational fears (homophobia) about my own homosexual friends, but I disagree that they should get married, period. It's like trying to get a square peg in a round hole. It can be done, but in cutting off the corners, the beauty of the square peg is forever gone. Did it ever occur to you, that God made you, like you are -- for His purposes? Look outside yourself. Maybe He's calling you -- to help others in their struggle with sin?
Dan Johnson
5:15 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
No matter what you call it, refusing to treat others as you would yourself under the law, fulfills the definitions of prejudice and discrimination.
I am not here for myself. I am here trying to persuade others that use of the law to deny equal treatment results in real harm to real people. I have seen the harmful and deadly effects of prejudice both personally and professionally.
The vast body of evidence since the early days of social science shows prejudice and discrimination cause harm in a wide variety of ways. Laws that deny equality stigmatize. The resulting dehumanization and demonization is used to justify their behavior by those who bully, beat, torture, and kill. It also results in self destruction, both fast and slow. The same prejudice used to dehumanize us here is also used around the world to justify imprisonment, torture, and death.
The only way to end prejudice is to expose it and the harm it causes, anywhere and everywhere it surfaces. Prejudice is deadly, and can only be cured through education and understanding. Let's remember Jesus told us the most important thing we need to know is; we should love God and love others the same. All other religions and non-religious ethical belief systems agree with the Golden Rule. Now is the time to put it into practice. Love and equal rights are healthy, while prejudice and dsicrimination cause needless suffering and death.
Tom at Oak Lawn
5:46 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
Dan.....there you go again....first misquoting Dr. Martin Luther King, and now Jesus. When Jesus said "“The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”........ he was NOT referring to humans accepting and affirming homosexual sins that, Jesus did say, lead to death. The most important thing to remember is that Christ's love frees us all FROM sin -- it never frees us TO sin.
Dan Johnson
6:05 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013
You fail to show any misquotes.
Your belief committed same sex relationships based on mutual love and respect are a sin, is your interpretation of scripture. Others interpret those few verses differently. Yet you are willing to use your interpretation to use the law to harm others by refusing to treat them as you would yourself. Many understand this as a violation of the Golden Rule.
Matthew 7:12,: So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Galatians 5:14: The entire law is summed up in a single command: "Love your neighbor as yourself."
James 2-8 But if you keep the greatest law of all, as it is given in the holy Writings, Have love for your neighbour as for yourself, you do well:
Matthew 22:37-40 Jesus said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself. The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments."
Romans 13:10 Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
Tom at Oak Lawn
3:59 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Religious trends during the past few decades have made today’s debate over homosexuality almost inevitable. In a growing number of denominations, the Bible’s Old Testament moral statements are increasingly seen as irrelevant to our culture. Pro-homosexual scholars argue that Christians are no longer under the Mosaic Law. But we must carefully distinguish the dietary or ceremonial laws (abolished in the New Testament – Mark 7:19 , Luke 22:20 , Heb. 10:8-10) from the moral laws (reinforced in the New Testament and still applicable today – Mark 7:20 -23, Matt. 5:27 , 28). The important distinction between these laws is reflected in the Old Testament penalties for breaking them. Disobedience to the ceremonial laws resulted in uncleanness (Lev. 11:24 , etc.), while breaking the moral laws meant death (Lev.20). Scripture tells us that God’s moral laws do not change, and that His Word “stands forever,” (Isa.40:8). “Do not think that I came to destroy the Law and the Prophets? I did not come to destroy but to fulfill.” (Mat 5:17 ).
Dan Johnson
5:35 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
This is your interpretation of scripture, which allows you to harm others and ignore the Golden Rule.
It is your judgement that condemns relationships based on mutual love and respect, as sinful. Yet many understand those few verses used to condemn love were instead addressing abusive relationships based on lust and self gratification using temple prostitutes, including pagan ritual orgies.
While free to believe what you choose, your choice of interpretation causes real harm to real people. Many agree interpretations that promote harming others needlessly are inconsistent with Jesus' message of treating others as He did us.
And this is why we have a constitution that required equal treatment for all persons, rather than relying on various biblical interpretations for our laws.
Tom at Oak Lawn
4:00 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Historically, one cannot deny the fact that from the time of Sodom , the term “sodomites,” describes a lifestyle that throughout civilized society has been considered sinful and inexcusably wicked (Deut. 23:17 ). In Genesis 19:4-7, the men of Sodom call out to Lot and said, “Where are the men which came into thee this night? Bring them out unto us, that we might know (have sexual intercourse) them.” The Hebrew word translated “know” in this passage is “yada,” the same word used in Genesis 4:1, “And Adam ‘knew’ his wife and she conceived.” Sodomy and allied practices were known in late Latin as peccatum sodomiticum, “sin of Sodom .”
Interestingly, however, if you were to research 19th Century commentaries on passages dealing with homosexuality, you would not be able to find it. The closest you will come to the word “homosexuality” are passages in Scripture dealing with “that unspeakable sin.” It was considered to be, at that time in history, a sin so vile, so heinous, as to not even be mentioned by name.
Dan Johnson
5:52 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The lifestyle condemned at the time of Sodom, was harming others needlessly by refusing to treat them as you would yourself.
It is irrational to believe every man in Sodom, young and old, from every quarter, was gay. They did not go to Lot's seeking to form a committed relationship based on mutual love and respect. They were there either to interrogate them or to rape them, depending on your choice of interpretation. Either way, they were not interested in a relationship based on love and respect.
The word "homosexual" wasn't even invented till 1869. When you see it in your bible, you should recognize it as a mistranslation and misinterpretation as it has been handed down over time. "The original Greek word often quoted as sexual immorality, Paul used was "porneia" which means "a harlot for hire"." (Rev. Dr. Mel White) This has nothing to do with a committed relationship based on mutual love and respect.
"There are about twenty references to the story of Sodom in the Bible, and none of them says homosexuality was the sin of Sodom. One of the most extensive references to Sodom is found in Ezekiel, which says, “This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy. They were haughty and did abominable things before me; therefore I removed them when I saw it.” (Ezekiel 16:49-50) (wouldjesusdiscriminate.org)
Dan Johnson
5:55 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The use of the story of Sodom to label a sex act is a good example of a misinterpretation and misapplication of biblical verses to demonize and dehumanize, ignoring the original message of the story, which was that you should treat others as you would yourslef. How do you treat the stranger at the gate...
"The primarily sexual meaning of the word sodomia for Christians did not evolve before the 6th century AD. Roman Emperor Justinian I, in his novels no. 77 (dating 538) and no. 141 (dating 559) amended to his Corpus iuris civilis, and declared that Sodom's sin had been specifically same-sex activities and desire for them. He also linked "famines, earthquakes, and pestilences" upon cities as being due to "such crimes", during a time of recent earthquakes and other disasters." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy
Sin of Sodom http://www.iwgonline.org/docs/sodom.html
Dan Johnson
5:56 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
"Jesus and five Old Testament prophets all speak of the sins that led to the destruction of Sodom -- and not one of them mentions homosexuality. Even Billy Graham doesn't mention homosexuality when he preaches on Sodom."
"Ezekiel 16:48-49 tell us: "This is the sin of Sodom; she and her suburbs had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not help or encourage the poor and needy. They were arrogant and this was abominable in God's eyes."
"It was common for soldiers, thieves, and bullies to rape a fallen enemy, asserting their victory by dehumanizing and demeaning the vanquished. This act of raping an enemy is about power and revenge,"
And it still happens today, most notoriously in prisons. It is not about love. It is about power, control, domination, and abuse. Rape is not love.
"The sexual act that occurs in the story of Sodom is a gang rape -- and homosexuals oppose gang rape as much as anyone. That's why I believe the story of Sodom says a lot about God's will for each of us, but nothing about homosexuality as we understand it today." ( quotes from: What the Bible says - and doesn't say - about Homosexuality)
Dan Johnson
6:01 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Even the English versions of this story demonstrate there was nothing that can be honestly used to condemn gay people. Many other explanations including the Jewish versions of the this story agree the message is that you should not harm others but instead, treat them with love.
"In Sodom every one who gave bread and water to the poor was condemned to death by fire (Yalḳ., Gen. 83). Two girls, one poor and the other rich, went to a well; and the former gave the latter her jug of water, receiving in return a vessel containing bread. When this became known, both were burned alive."
http://jewishencyclopedia.com/articles/13827-sodom
So when you see verses that refer to Sodomites, they are addressing those who harm others needlessly, not same sex relationships based on mutual love and respect.
And yet many are quick to claim Jesus condemned same sex relationships and use that assumption to justify causing suffering and death in His name, even though Jesus never condemned relationships based on mutual love and respect.
Tom at Oak Lawn
4:01 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Homosexual sin cuts to the heart of the creation covenant. It exchanges the “truth of God for a lie,” as Romans 1:25 put it. In the Genesis account, Scripture tells us that God shaped man in His own image (1:27) anticipated his loneliness and created a wife exactly suited for him (2:22), one man cleaving to one woman, baring children, raising them in the fear of the Lord. “Be fruitful and multiply” ( 1:28 ), is the first “cultural mandate” given to man. It is morally so biblically based as to be the self-evident foundation of civilization. Today that foundation is crumbling. Homosexuality is a deliberate rejection of God’s mandate. Homosexuality mocks God’s living design and order. It is perhaps the most radical rebellion against God, the rudest rejection of God’s authority, saying to the Creator that “HE MADE A MISTAKE!”
Dan Johnson
6:08 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Matthew 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
"According to Jesus, born eunuchs are exempt from the Adam and Eve style heterosexual marriage paradigm.
Eunuchs so born from their mother’s womb. These eunuchs, according to Jesus, were born that way. They did not make a personal choice to be eunuchs and they were not physically castrated by men. Some Christians believe these men were homosexual eunuchs." http://www.gaychristian101.com/Homosexual-Eunuchs.html
Dan Johnson
6:09 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
It is your judgement that God made a mistake.
Gay people have always existed across time and place. Many believe God made everything, including gay people. Jesus recognized not all were made for opposite sex marriage. While many use Matthew 19 to support their condemnation of gay people, they ignore the verses after #7.
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:04 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The word “tolerance” is not mentioned in the Bible. Tolerance is not the eleventh commandment of God. God is not tolerant of sin. He said “Repent or perish” (Luke 13:3). God does not defend men and women who have sex with their own gender as normal. To the contrary, it’s a lifestyle, which is openly condemned in the Bible more than any other specific sin. Christians, regardless of denomination, are instructed to speak the truth in love (Eph. 5:15 ), but the emphasis in this verse is not on love – it is on the truth!
Dan Johnson
6:33 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The condemnations you find in the bible are a result of misinterpretation and mistranslation, and your own prejudice when you read them. Again, "What the Bible forbids is acts of lust, rape, idolatry, violation of religious purity obligations, or pederasty, but no condemnation of homosexuality in relationships of mutual respect and love." (Dr. Nelson)
While you might not find the word "tolerance" in the bible, Jesus repeatedly instructed us to treat others as He would treat us. The Golden Rule, is repeated many times. John 13:34: A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
Sexual orientation is not a lifestyle. It may or may not be expressed in a wide variety of lifestyles, but the enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and physical attraction that makes up sexual orientation, is not a lifestyle. Even chaste people have a sexual orientation. While chastity is a lifestyle choice, orientation is neither.
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:10 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. 17 For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith,5 as it is written, “The righteous shall live by faith.”6 God's Wrath on Unrighteousness
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. 19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world,7 in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. 21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things. Rom.1.8.16-23
Dan Johnson
6:37 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
This passage condemns worshiping idols. You must add your own interpretation to find a justification for condemning relationships based on mutual love and respect.
Romans 14:13 Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way.
John 15:17: This is my command: Love each other.
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:30 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
eunuch in the Bible is NOT a homosexual man. A eunuch is a man who may have been castrated, typically early enough in his life for this change to have major hormonal consequences. Less commonly, in translations of ancient texts, "eunuch" may refer to a man who is not castrated but who is impotent, celibate or otherwise not inclined to marry and procreate. Most eunuchs who are castrated before puberty -- are not sexual.
Dan Johnson
6:45 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Again, this is your chosen translation, which ignores 19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
"According to Jesus, born eunuchs are exempt from the Adam and Eve style heterosexual marriage paradigm.
Eunuchs so born from their mother’s womb. These eunuchs, according to Jesus, were born that way. They did not make a personal choice to be eunuchs and they were not physically castrated by men." Some Christians believe these men were gay.
Your chosen translation allows you to harm others. This one is consistent with the message to treat others as you would yourself.
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:40 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
11 But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. 12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:42 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
People who do not care about the commandments of God, who have no standard but their own culture – they cannot really know. But the believer knows! And, it is much worse when someone who KNOWS suppresses what he or she knows, supports or does nothing to correct this abomination, and calls anyone “mean-spirited, hateful or intolerant” who opposes and exposes this sin. God has a created order in which He has decreed only proper sexual intimacies occur within heterosexual marriage. This includes Judaism, Protestantism and Catholicism. Only pagan religions differ! Now, we may not like that, but that’s the truth, regardless of any interpretive gymnastics we might attempt. The further homosexual behavior is “normalized” by people who describe themselves as Christians, of all people, the more clearly those with eyes to see will recognize that our destruction is upon us.
Good News, Dan! There is hope for the homosexual on the same basis as there is hope for any sinner: repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. The homosexual can be forgiven, set free, and changed by God’s love and power. Amen
Dan Johnson
7:01 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Here again, your choice of belief allows you to harm others by ignoring the Golden Rule.
Attempts to change sexual orientation have been shown to be ineffective as well as harmful. When people buy the prejudice you promote, and eventually realize they cannot "pray away the gay", many are driven to despair and self destructive behavior including suicide.
At best, immersion in a religious based program relying on shame and guilt, only temporarily allows gay people to suppress their orientation. Eventually it comes out, and often in destructive ways for both themselves and those around them. I know this from personal experience, the experiences of many I know, as well as education and professional experience.
Chastity is not a natural or realistic requirement, and change of sexual orientation is unrealistic if not impossible.
Robert E
7:38 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The commandments of god only apply to his chosen people and not to anyone else.
Tom at Oak Lawn
6:43 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
So now YOU know. What you do with this truth is your choice.
Dan Johnson
7:12 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Suffering and death are the extreme results of the belief being gay is not acceptable and we must change to heterosexual or live a life of chastity and denial of our humanity.
Not all Christian groups judge and condemn, and some accept gay people as we are without condition. But those who demonize and punish us are killing us, and many of us reach a point where we decide to fight back rather than kill ourselves or accept dehumanization quietly. Unless we accept punishment and dehumanization as a way of life, we have no choice but to challenge and oppose prejudice no matter where is comes from, and whether it is mild or extreme.
Decades of history, literature, and science, in addition to trial records of many different courts have all clearly demonstrated: Prejudice and discrimination cause suffering and death.
Robert E
7:50 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013
The God of the Bible is completely irrelevant. For arguments sake, let’s assume that the Christians are right and that all people who have ever lived will be before the judgement seat of god. A simple bit of logic shows how the judgement doled out there is completely irrelevant. God is perfect. God created all people with the abilities and situations to be who they are. If God is perfect, then perfect judgement would take into account every single detail of a person’s being, including the ability god gave that person to make all decisions. Thus, perfect judgement from a perfect creator would indicate that ALL people would have to receive the same judgement. All things being equal, all things are equal.